in september.

I hate being the debbie downer of the blog world, but wow how september is such a difficult month!
Sometimes there is this thing that goes off that reminds me I feel very terrible. It usually takes me awhile to figure out why that is? Usually it takes looking at a calendar. For some reason, there are certain days or weeks and months, that set off depressed feelings and the end of september is one of the hardest times with the most depressed feelings. Lua got sick after a birthday party we took her to, it wouldn't have mattered if she did go or didnt because May was the one who initially got sick and passed it on so Lua would have gotten sick regardless. But it was at the end of September and then after not fully recovering, October she passed away with out us ever expecting this could happen.

Remember that feeling where you think nothing bad can actually really ever happen to you?
Only takes one time for that feeling to fade away fast! So we actually aren't invincible???

Well last year Sol got sick at the exact same time Lua did. Want to see what a freaked out person looks like?? I probably have some pictures. We were admitted with Sol around the same time that Lua got sick last year. So of course, this year I am pretty freaked out. Although Sol has been showing how tough he is at these sicknesses he has calmed me some. Except, I know how easy it is for him to not be able to fight a cold with out proper support and if anything goes wrong he could easily pass away, I will never make that mistake again to think it is actually hard for someone to die from a cold because it is possible especially if you start adding other factors to the equation. Well, we all ended up with this sinus cold this last week and Sol is still working on trying to get over his. It started out fine but now he is getting congested and when it gets to his lungs it is usually difficult to deal with, so I am still being hopeful that he will bounce back any day here. If he doesn't, I think I will lose my mind, I just cant take this time of year anymore! Last year was really difficult from september to january, I felt like we were admitted every month, and we basically were. If it is possible for us to not get sick and much as we did last year that would really be a big help!

So with all of this and all of my "Ahhhhnessss" (because I have no other words to describe?) I am at my check up this last month and find that I certainly qualify for anxiety medication. I know so hard to believe that I could possibly have anxiety! Where did that come from? Ha, I laugh to not cry :D It just becomes interesting to me what the outcome is of going through traumatic things. Daily our family can battle hard memories, we all go through it so differently too, and it is interesting to see how things that happen to us shape us and mold us into different versions of ourselves. I truly am not going anywhere with any of this so feel free to stop reading at any time, but september is such a sucky time of year i feel it deserved to have my thoughts written down about it. Ha.

Sol gives me hope though. And if he does well the rest of this month, maybe by next year it wont be as hard. He does have a procedure coming up october 6th and if that doesnt go well then october will be DEAD to me. I will never acknowledge october ever again, we will seriously be through. Just a warning october.
He does though. I Love seeing who this little man is becoming. Today he kept trying to kick off his pulse ox prob and then he chuckles about it. Boys are so naughty, even when they have such little movement they find ways to be naught. It is truly the best, and some what refreshing from dealing with all the emotions a girl gives you lol! We recently went to a genetic appointment and in that appointment, something I have not told on my facebook page for sol, or many other people, The neuromuscular doctor has found a drug that could potentially help Sol gain some strength. We will put him on it for a month and see what happens, she said if it is going to work we will see it happen right away. I am not starting this until after his procedure though, so not until october will we try it, but this is something i have been wanting, anything that could even possibly maybe help or maybe not do anything, but it makes me feel like we are trying SOMETHING, you know how hard it is to watch your child be in a body he really wasn't meant to be in? This feels like a little piece of hope and if not this, maybe some day there will be something. Each day I watch him, ready to jump like his sister, or walk like is cousin, or play like the neighbors and each day it breaks me a little more that he wants this and cant do it. It is a hard thing, but he is creative, between the two of us, we find ways to get things done so that is why I say he does give me hope. He is of course my rainbow baby and he is living up to the name every day. Him and his sisters makes me one proud mommy!