the hammock.

Babies with arthrogryposis multiplex congenita develop this due to the lack of movement in utero. There are many reasons why there is the lack of movement, if it be that the muscle didn't form which leads to no movement, some cases there isn't enough fluid for baby to move, I've read that sometimes the cord can cause contractures as well. Each child has a different reason as to why they didn't move. We know our babies didn't move because they lack skeletal muscle to give them the strength to move. As they get/got bigger they can take the muscle they have to work with and make that as strong as they can and work with what they have. I never saw any movement from Lua's core, trunk area. I was told at the hospital that it seemed she lacked all muscle in her back, so I was never sure if she would or wouldn't ever move her trunk area. I tried to work with her on that, but it is hard to try to activate those muscles in that area and notice movement from a weak baby. The most we did to work with her was sitting up, sitting up against pillows, or holding her in sitting up position and she did well with all of that. We did tub time where she could move her little body, but because of the trach we never filled the water up too much to protect her from water coming in. I had plans to take her to an aquatic center which would have been easier to hold her in and what not, but we never made it there. So I was never aware of any progress that we made with her core. Sol was pretty much the same. I never saw movement from his trunk, I'm not sure how much muscle he has there, we are continuously told by the speech therapist that he wont get better at his swallowing unless his core gets stronger. I was trying to think of what we could do so he could try to activate his core. He doesn't tolerate sitting up well unless I am holding him up. He aspirates too much saliva to get a good work out from sitting up assisted with pillows and what not. His swing as too much support to actually have him activate those muscles in my opinion. The tub is the same with Lua, we can't fill it enough to really help him be free in that area and it be safe. I was trying to figure out what we could do so he could lay free and feel his whole body move but also be contained in something that was somewhat supportive. The hammock came to mind. I thought about this for awhile and it sounded like a good idea. So I took a blanket and tied to two chairs and safely held him in there. It swings, he feels all of it, he LOVED it. I went on amazon and bought a baby hammock. 

Best. Buy. Ever. 

It is exactly what I was looking for. When we got the hammock and put him in there, the first few seconds I saw his trunk area do a little shimmy, shake, shake. He loves it. He smiles, He swings. He is free yet supported and I think this will help activate the rest of his body that we can't quite activate for him. I highly, Highly, recommend a baby hammock for any kiddo that has weak trunk area. I actually recommend a baby hammock for any baby! They are awesome, it is kind of like a sling that you would use to wear a baby but you lay it out and let the baby swing by themselves. I am so happy I thought of this idea. He has gone in it a little each day. The first few times he was in it, he was so happy and he didn't require a ton of suctioning, his oxygen level was 100% and his heart rate was 120s, which is lower than his normal of 140s. He was just so content and relaxed in it. If nothing else it is a great thing to let the babies relax on.

Recently Sol has also started to bob holding his head up. He can some what support his head if we sit holding him upright and balance his head. The longest he has held up his head is about a minute. Small amount, small start, but great progress!!! I just keep thinking where he will be in 5 months from now. Hard to say, as long as he continues to improve that is my ultimate goal. He has been feeling pretty well lately too. This weekend we went to see his new baby cousin! And he had a great day. Very little suctioning required, he did great on the car drive, there and back. He had just the best day we have had in a very long time! It has taken us all week to recover from that, but thats okay. We have another trip we are going to make, to madision, on friday and hopefully he does just as well for that trip. I am so proud of him and all the strides he is making. He is one tough little man.

He has also been working on his little gym and his leg movements are going wild! Another thing he absolutely loves! When we had Lua, I strapped balls to her legs to let her move, and she could move like crazy doing that, and she loved it! I didn't see this type of gym, that is actually for SMA kiddos, until we were at the hospital in Madison. This is another must have for kiddos with low muscle tone, contractures, and that are weak. It really helps them to feel free.

There are so many tricks out there to help babies like ours get movement in, and the great thing about all of these things is the fact that the more they work at it, the stronger they potentially can get. The stronger they get, better quality of life they can have. It is one of the things I enjoy through all of this, trying to find new, unique ways to get them to move like we do. I just love to want him and see how happy he gets getting in his hammock, or how much he enjoys kicking his legs around. He gives the biggest smiles. It really is the best feeling in the world. Someone told me once, or I read somewhere, that is the thing about having kids that are different able, it means so much more when they hit mile stones, it is a much bigger deal when they accomplish a new task or experience a new thing. I almost cried when I felt Sol take his head away from my hand and hold his head up on his own.
Those are the moments you live for.